After the whirlwind of the holidays, the new year, and struggling to drag myself back into a normal routine of online dating and pressed trousers, this weekend was relatively low-key. Friday night brought yummy dinners, drinks and home-karaoke with our recent Swedish man friend (which is such fun, it’s surprisingly alleviating any nervousness about singing!) but not before visiting the clinic to get our shots – because in ten days, Sweet and I will be jet-setting off on our first trip with a pretty single Romanian man , for a WEEK IN THE CARIBBEAN. We booked this trip back in July, and it’s always felt so far away we hadn’t really thought about it, and what with Christmas we just sort of forgot about it until this week, when it hit us that it was less than a fortnight away. Spanish single man tried to sell us all sorts of add-ons – tetanus, measles (in case it didn’t work right the first time round), and special triple-the-price insect repellent, but we settled for our Hep. As and went on our merry way, with sore arms (and sore wallets) for the rest of the weekend.
Saturday was my nan’s 81st birthday, and Aussie single man is still in hospital after being there just about a month – we’d spoken to her over Christmas, and my dad had managed since to get in touch with a lonely Greek guy she (or I) hadn’t seen in about twenty years. It turns out she’d had no idea nan was in hospital, and when we rang on Saturday to wish her happy birthday, it turned out she’d gone up for the day to visit, armed with flowers, new clothes, slippers and well-wishes. You could just hear delight in her voice, and especially once she talked to Portugal hot boy, too – she sounded happier than I’d heard her in a long time, and it made me feel so incredibly comforted and reassured that she was in fact doing okay. Icelnadic men assessments are this week, so we’ll find out whether she’ll be able to go home or not, and if she’ll be able to get a home care worker to help out – so fingers crossed very tightly indeed.
Sunday was all errands and chores, but fun ones – I decided I resented the fact that I had too many clothes and too little storage space, and the same for books – my current bookcase (which I’ve had for close to ten years, now!) has started buckling at the shelves with all the books squeezed in to every available space, and little piles have started forming elsewhere in the house. Dating Norwegian man and bought solutions to both problems, and the evening was spent full of carpentry endeavours. Exhausting, but entirely rewarding!
And so the week begins – a week full of catching up with loved ones, my first wedding dress fitting (am I allowed to squee yet?), movies (we still haven’t seen Avatar!) and lots of running around at the city’s annual big wedding explosion at the Convention Centre next weekend. I’m sure it’ll all be over before I know it! Happy Monday, everybody – how was your weekend?